Bernie Fratto

Speaking
of
Sports 

by
Bernie 
Fratto


Nov 22nd…
Will Live Forever

 
11/24/03
So much has been made about November 22nd… On this date in 1963, America lost perhaps it’s most popular president, in a tragedy that will never be forgotten. The catch phrase that has held for 40 years has been “do you know where you were?” 

November 22nd will take on additional meaning for the rest of our lives. To the friends, family and supporters of Novi football, we all know where we were, physically and emotionally… 

The key similarity between the loss of our president and the loss of a football game may appear trite, but it’s appropriate. As we replay it over and over in our minds, it’s easy to fret over what might have been, the feeling of missing out on a future opportunity that may have provided even bigger thrills and bigger rewards. 

But, we can’t look at it that way. Life ain’t fair and neither is the world of sport. Our hearts are bleeding but if we step back and think about the rarified air Wildcat football achieved this year, we’ll realize this team will never be forgotten for all the right reasons. 

KVC Champs, the home-victory and retention of the Jug, District Champions, Regional Champions, State Semi-Finalists, and the only team in Novi history to win 12 football games in a single season… These are accomplishments that truly define the greatness of the 2003 edition of Varsity Football at Novi HS.
 
It’s important that this team be defined by what they did, not what they might have missed out on. It’s highly coincidental that it ended abruptly on Nov 22nd, and I do believe there’s a small parallel, even if it’s ever so slight. 

Don’t tell that to Vince Lombardi. “Sports is not a matter of life and death,” Lombardi once deadpanned, “It’s much more important than that.” 

Life goes and and the games go on…And when the hurt starts to go away, we’ll stop and think about Nov 22nd. A smile will begin to emerge. We’ll reflect on what it took to get there. The hard work in the heat of August… The Power Outage of 2003... The overtime victory at Brighton... The classic battles against South Lyon, Milford, Adrian, and MacKenzie.

And the chance to watch our boys grow into men. We’ll never, ever forget where we were on Nov 22nd...

We were with you, and we always will be.


(c) 2003 Novi Information Network
www.novi.org

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Bernie Fratto's column appears right here each week. Bernie is a member of the Minor League Baseball Alumni Association and in his former life, he spent time in the Cincinnati Reds Farm System. He is an accomplished Freelance writer, and sought after keynote speaker, appearing often at Award Ceremonies, Athletic Banquets, and Company functions. He is passionate about sports and the life-lessons they teach. "Behind every sports story lies the hearts and minds of real human beings," Fratto said..."And these athletic endeavors often serve as a metaphor for the game we call life."

Bernie is also the voice of Novi Wildcat Hockey and host of Wildcat Face-off, a local radio program dedicated to youth sports in Novi.