Bernie Fratto

Speaking
of
Sports 

by
Bernie 
Fratto



 “When the One Great Scorer comes To write against your name, He marks not that you won or lost …
But how you played
the game”

 
~ Grantland Rice

11/7/03
I am intentionally writing this column before knowing the outcome of the Novi/Adrian game. Why? Because there’s no doubt in my mind the real story line here will be how the kids played, not the final score.

There’s no doubt in my mind there will be mistakes made, we are dealing with human beings, and their time on earth has been short.

And there’s no doubt we’ll recover from those mistakes, and if they other guys make a few faux paus, we’ll take advantage.

I know in my heart the thing that will stick with us forever  will be how our sons represented the school, the city, and of course their friends and family. That’s what we’ll remember most. And, I’m absolutely convinced that we’ll be awed by our boys.

Grantland Rice is perhaps the greatest sportswriter of all time, and his quote about how you played the game was part of a famous poem he wrote entitled “Alumnus Football.”

25 years ago in the middle of nowhere in the midst of a 10-hour bus ride, an old coach told me, “son, if you’re going to wear a jock in this life you have to realize you can game-plan everything but the outcome.” That’s why how playing the game becomes the larger issue and the score ends up just being the byproduct or result.

Every once in a while a situation arises, and as you look at a group of people you just know in the back of your mind they simply refuse to lose. That group of baby-faced men just might be living in our homes.

Willy Wonka once said, “We are the makers of music and dreamers of dreams.”  Everyone knows and believes that going to the Dome would be a dream, but the 2003 Novi Wildcats have approached their collective jobs in such a businesslike manner that you can’t help but notice that the way the play the game is so much more significant than what the final scores have been.

Grantland Rice wrote those words in 1941, and they ring just as true today. And when it comes to blocking and tackling, knowing your assignments, having to make a play, or doing whatever it takes to help the team, our boys play the game the way it was meant to be played.

And so far, the music they’ve orchestrated is like a symphony. 

Strike up the band…


(c) 2003 Novi Information Network
www.novi.org

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Bernie Fratto's column appears right here each week. Bernie is a member of the Minor League Baseball Alumni Association and in his former life, he spent time in the Cincinnati Reds Farm System. He is an accomplished Freelance writer, and sought after keynote speaker, appearing often at Award Ceremonies, Athletic Banquets, and Company functions. He is passionate about sports and the life-lessons they teach. "Behind every sports story lies the hearts and minds of real human beings," Fratto said..."And these athletic endeavors often serve as a metaphor for the game we call life."

Bernie is also the voice of Novi Wildcat Hockey and host of Wildcat Face-off, a local radio program dedicated to youth sports in Novi.